

I have been thinking lately about when my kids were younger . (Having the drama of teenagers is not easy, and I think that remembering when they were little helps remind us that we do love them and can't kill them). These teen years, albeit the very beginning have not been easy. When there is hard times happening now, I nostalgically think back on only good times when they were babies, toddlers and little kids. Alex and Frankie are only 14 months apart so most of their stages in life have come together. I like to think that I tried to enjoy my kids when they were little, but there were times that I would want to pull my hair out because of my utter frustration too. I wondered if they would ever grow up. When would they sleep though the night,feed themselves, tie their own shoes, take a shower by themselves, not cry as much and wipe their own backsides.
All this thinking led me to one the thought, Am I enjoying my time with my kids now?
Last year I listed my New Years resolutions on our blog. I did accomplish some and others I am still working on. This year I have one major resolution that is too be happy at the stage of life I am in right now.
Alex and Frankie are now 14 and 13 yrs old. Needless to say my kids can now do all of the above, but to what end? They are growing up to attempt to be independent responsible young adults. But before I know it they will be driving, dating, going to college (we hope), moving out, going on a mission, getting a career, marring and starting a family of their own.
Time goes by so fast. We all need to (pardon the expression) but take time to "smell the roses"of own life. Whether that be in regards to enjoying our kids more, appreciating our husbands, fulfilling church callings or having a good attitude at our job. I love the scripture that says "Men are that they might have joy." I think we all want joy. This is not to say that all will be joyous all the time, but if we can take the time to really appreciate the time and season of our lives right now, I think we will be working towards that joy.
Happy New Year to you all